Romanian Customs

Wedding Traditions

Romanian weddings are rich in tradition and symbolism. Here are some customs you might experience at our celebration:

The Plicul

Instead of a traditional gift registry, Romanian weddings observe the “plicul” tradition. Guests contribute money in a sealed envelope, which the couple uses to start their new life together. The envelope is typically given when guests say their goodbyes—either handed directly to the bride or groom, or dropped in a dedicated box. Couples usually personalize the box with something meaningful to them.

Live Music and Dancing

Romanian weddings are known for their lively music and dancing. Traditional folk music often accompanies the celebration, and guests are encouraged to join in the dancing. Don’t be surprised if the music can be really loud!

The Kidnapping of the Bride

A playful tradition where guests “kidnap” the bride during the reception. The groom must then “ransom” her back, usually by performing a fun task, singing a song, or making a toast. It’s all in good fun!

Mărturii (Wedding Favors)

Mărturii are small take-home gifts given to guests as a thank you for attending. These keepsakes serve as a memento of the celebration and are typically personalized or themed to reflect the couple’s style and the wedding theme. You’ll usually receive yours during the reception or as you leave.

The Food Experience

Romanian weddings are known for their abundance of food! Expect 5-6 servings throughout the celebration, starting with appetizers and progressing through multiple courses. Our advice: pace yourself. Don’t go crazy on the first buffet—there’s much more to come, and you’ll want to save room for everything!

Traditional Wedding Phrases

You’ll likely hear these traditional Romanian phrases throughout the celebration:

“Casă de piatră!” — Literally “house of stone,” this is the most traditional wedding blessing, wishing the couple a strong and lasting marriage built on a solid foundation.
“La mulți ani!” — “Many years!” A celebratory phrase used for toasts and congratulations.
“Să trăiți!” — “May you live!” Often said when congratulating the couple, wishing them a long life together.
“Să fie într-un ceas bun!” — Literally “may it be in a good hour,” this phrase wishes the couple good fortune and auspicious timing for their marriage.
“Noroc!” — “Cheers!” The most common toast. Make eye contact when clinking glasses.
“Sănătate!” — “To health!” Another popular toast.

General Romanian Etiquette

A firm handshake with direct eye contact is standard
Romanians prefer handshakes or cheek kisses over hugs
Small talk is very much a thing in Romania—expect friendly conversation
Common greetings: “Bună ziua” (Good day), “Salut” (Hi - informal)